October 21, 2005

Not So Bad

Tomorrow is my sister's 40th birthday. She called me yesterday and asked me "when does it get better?".

So, being the warm, loving supportive sister that I am I share my best advice.

"Shut up, suck it up. It's all fine. Get over yourself."

(I know, my way with words is a gift!)

But seriously - my 40s have been great. I feel better about myself than I ever have. Oh, I struggle with the fact that my body is changing a bit, and no I'm not thrilled with those changes. BUT......I don't know - I can't explain it. I feel more feminine, sexier, wiser - I LIKE my 40s.

The best part is that some of the stupid things I used to obsess over don't matter at all. It's kinda like I woke up one morning with a whole new perspective. And I LIKE it.

I just wish I could help her see that it really does only get better with time!!!

Posted by Tammi at October 21, 2005 05:43 AM
Comments

you make it sound so great, I am sitting here in my bath robe having my coffee, WAITING for 40......

Posted by: armywifetoddlermom at October 21, 2005 06:40 AM

I have to agree, the 40's are good. I think we just get comfortable with ourselves and thank God for that!! I wouldn't ever want to be the insecure mess I was in my twenties and thirties.

Posted by: Marty at October 21, 2005 09:56 AM

I like it too. especially when I'm told I don't look my age. it could be a lie, but then again who cares?

Posted by: michele at October 21, 2005 10:06 PM

At 41 I feel a little wiser but not really sexier, maybe I should change shampoos.

Posted by: Sgt Hook at October 22, 2005 07:25 AM