I promised a bit more on the gatherin' this weekend. Where to start, where to start.
OK - the beginning. Driving.
First and foremost - T1G deserves some kind of award. Do you realize that poor man was stuck, for 12 hours each way, in a car, with me. Just me. Oh - I let him plan the music, but still.....do y'all realize how much I can talk?
And what probably isn't terribly evident unless you have actually traveled with me - I'm directionally challenged. Big Time. AND - yes it get's worse - I don't really pay attention to details all that well. I think I asked him at least a dozen times which highway to take off of 39.
T1G: 74
Tammi: I want 80 right?
T1G: noooo, you want 74.
Tammi: OK - 74.
10 mins later....
Tammi: Oh look, 80. I go east here, right?
T1G:
T1G: nooooo, you want 74.
Tammi: Oh, that's right. 74
And on and on it went.
Did I mention I talk? A lot?
And just for the record - I had nothing to do with his bloody nose. Honest.
Anyway - we took off at 9:00pm Thursday. After just missing a deer it was pretty smooth driving. It only took about 12 hours. Just long enough to feel it, but not bad enough to suffer. But I can sure tell it's been a few months since I've made a haul like that.
Friday afternoon the gathering was beginning. Upon arriving at the SWG abode and greeting our handsome and charming host - the first blogger I met was Sir Jim. I knew him immediately, he has the best farookin' hair EVER. Seriously. And the great thing is - it's not his best feature. Imagine that. The best thing about Jim is..... Jim. He out and out rocks. Oh - and I will be working on learning lyrics. I can't think of anything I'd enjoy much more than singing along with you.
I started hauling stuff, cause you know I had to arrive with stuff, into the house. Out of the front door steps a beautiful young lady. I suddenly felt old and stuffy. Matronly as it were. It was Princess Cat. As with every other time I've meet a fellow blogger there was an instant comfort level. We puttered around in the kitchen and just chatted each other up. She is one impressivie woman. Smart and funny - as well as having the sweetest smile. It was a pleasure, pure and simple.
While we were standing outside on Erics FABULOUS deck three gentlemen appeared. Damn - I need to hang out on more decks. THAT'S where a girl needs to go to meet good men. Denny arrived, a more charming and very talented gent I've yet to meet. His way with stories is a gift. And his laugh. Oh sweet Lord, he has a marvelous laugh. It was a pleasure Sir. One I hope to repeat - soon. Then there was the dashing Zonker. A smile to light a room. And just about the most beautiful eyes I've seen on a man. Damn I didn't have the opportunity to spend as much time talking with him as I would have liked - but I also didn't want to fight my way through the crowd of women. Didn't seem dignified - and heaven knows I'm all about the dignity. And Redneck. Ahh Redneck. Funny, smart, sharp as a whip. And a damn good hugger - which is very important in my book.
Feeling a bit overwhelmed by all the good looking males hanging around I figured I'd head back into the kitchen. It's my comfort zone you see. Suddenly I look up and there she is. I knew her immediatly even having never met her face to face. Army Wife. A beautiful woman full of life and love and laughter. I could not hug her fast enough. As we puttered around in the kitchen it was like we had done it a thousand times before. It was comfortable, it was family.
Blackfive shows up and I just have to smile. Every Single Time I've had the pleasure of spending time around him it is just flat out wonderful. I could listen to this man talk for hours and hours and hours. I can't begin to tell you how honored I feel to call him friend.
Now it starts to get a bit fuzzy on who arrived when. I don't know if it was because I was trying to get dinner started or the very VERY strong drink I had consumed, but it's difficult to remember who I met next.
I know that Eric's cousin Brad showed up and he was a flat out hoot. Damn - he had me cracking up.
Johnny Oh finally got his butt over there. One of my favorite people in life I could hardly wait to see him again. I just adore him. Knowing I got to spend the better part of a weekend with him around was a real plus.
I do remember that Bou kept calling. I wanted her to stop calling and just get there. NOW. Finally, finally - I looked out the front window and saw her. I dashed out the front door and ran across the lawn. She had arrived. After about 4 really great hugs I turned to my beloved Sissy. I hope I didn't hurt her when I grabbed her. She had traveled so far, and I cannot begin to tell you how good it was to meet her. Bou introduced me to her gorgeous sister. Now normally I would be very self concious and actually shy meeting someone that smart I'd read her comments and heard stories from Bou and beautiful but I felt like I already knew her. Heck - the Bou and Morrigan family better watch out. I may be inviting myself to the next family gathering. Anyway - I didn't want to overwhelm her, as I've been wont to do, so I just smiled and warned her I'd be hugging later.
Dinner was consumed and a fire was started. I have to admit I was a bit chilled. OK - I guess trying to crawl into the fire bowl was a bit of a signal, but I really thought I was getting used to the cold weather.
Sitting there with my eyes closed I could hear the stories, the laughter. It was just wonderful. Think about it for a second. Folks from all over the country, together in the mountains of Tennessee. Sharing a laugh, a drink, and a bit of themselves. That is pretty flippin' cool.
more to come.....
Posted by Tammi at November 1, 2005 06:25 AMI REALLY needed this trip, yeah I guess it was obvious I don't get out much.
Yeah walking in Memphis sounds like great fun darling.
Oh man, you guys have to tell me the next time you do this. I so wanna come, if I am invited!! I love everyone on that list!
Posted by: oddybobo at November 1, 2005 08:46 AMUmmm, your weather pixie's looking a little, shall we say, hoochie-ish. What's with the spandex and boots??
LOL
Posted by: Carmen at November 1, 2005 10:23 AMTammi, I keep going from blog to blog, just craving more to read about what must have been such an incredible weekend! YOU! Keep writing!!
Posted by: Marty at November 1, 2005 10:27 AMweather pixie, yep very Emma Peel today.
Posted by: armywifetoddlermom at November 1, 2005 11:46 AMLet's see. I called when we left. I think. And then we called from Ed's World of Concrete. Then, wait... I think I called when Mo and Sissy insisted on taking a cat nap right after we checked into the hotel, while I was too strung out wanting to see y'all, so I walked to Piggly Wiggly and got some fruit.
And then I arrived. I think. Or did I call when I saw that frickin' hysterical black sign for that funeral home... maybe I called Eric on that one when I was trying to figure out where the f*** we were... when we were following YOU. I think the conversation went like this:
"Eric. Does Tammi know where the hell she's going? Oh and that rival funeral home needs to start advertising." And then we ended up at a car lot at a dealership because... Tammi has directional issues we were not aware of!
LOL! Good times. Brings a smile to my face!
Posted by: Bou at November 1, 2005 12:21 PM.. it still seems like a blur... talk about a busy and bustling house!.. but I wouldn't have missed a single minute of it...
Posted by: Eric at November 1, 2005 01:41 PM"Folks from all over the country, together in the mountains of Tennessee. Sharing a laugh, a drink, and a bit of themselves. That is pretty flippin' cool."
Damned straight.
Posted by: Jim - PRS at November 2, 2005 12:54 AMI want to join YOUR club!
I feel like such a "little" blogger. You guys are the heavy hitters. Hopefully one day I'll be able to meet a few of you myself.
I would feel like Wayne and Garth - "I'm not worthy!"
But a girl can dream, right?
You can hug me anytime! It was really nice to put the face and incredibly talk figure with the name. I'd heard so much about you and it was a well overdue meeting.
Posted by: Morrigan at November 5, 2005 08:30 AM